kindness, love, loving kindness, paul luftenegger.

Love. Live. Love

Often I am commenting on posts that I really, really, like and I like put “Love, Love, Love!” in the comments to show how much I like it. 🙂

The interesting thing is that almost all the time, I misspell one of the Loves and it goes something like this. “Love, Live, Love”. And I say to myself something like “oh I made a mistake” but my heart always says “No, it’s perfect!” Love, Live, Love!!!

I got to thinking about this and it is so true! If we don’t have love in our lives, especially for ourselves, we cannot truly live! We are comprised of love. Every cell in our body is and came from love and will return to love. Today in my morning meditation I saw every cell in my body as littles tiny hearts. ❤ ❤ ❤ It was a great visual.

If we want to fast tract our lives to a JOYous journey here on earth or to a blissful state, then we need to fast track our love of self.

This morning when I opened FB I saw a this beautiful post from my friend Paul Luftenger. Paul is a Multi Award Winning Published Singer Songwriter In 120+ Countries

“Paul Writes, Sings, and Composes Conscious Music To Inspire Global Love & Kindness From Within – Powerful Conscious Music Always Supporting The Heart & Soul To Feel and Know Its Beauty and Divine Holy Worth From The Inside Out!”

Paul is one of my favorite people and in his FB post this morning he wrote this. I can’t help but share it here because it is on point:

From Paul’s FB Post:

“What I wish all human beings on earth knew today.

To be kind and gentle and loving to oneself.

To stop pointing fingers at others by embracing the light of love and kindness from within oneself.

I have learned that the real pain of the world comes from one place…the space within oneself projected out on others without regard or responsibility of one’s own energy or vibration. It is the biggest lie ever told.

Healthy people have healthy hearts and healthy souls; they don’t harm others – but rather embrace the self healing process from within oneself.

I have learned in my 42 years of being human that the one person that has to be loved and forgiven is the hardest person to fully embrace and love, and that is oneself.

I use to be so hard on him.

I use to tell him he couldn’t sing or dance or be free.

I use to scold him for being scared.

I use to belittle him for all the stupid choices he had made.

I use to tell him he was weak.

I use to feel he wasn’t smart enough…. or that he was too stupid or too pathetic or too gay or too ugly…..until one day I embraced him for all the things he was…it came to be known after I prayed to God for help on the day my father hung himself….I was shown by God to love the spark of God that he was…. for he was shown that he was a piece of God….. and I began to love the child he once was… the gift to the world he had forgotten he was and day by day his light began to be brighter….and brighter….and brighter.

That precious child within me healed all of my wounds with God’s pure loving grace through letting go and taking the knife away from his own throat.

Each time I cried to God in my darkness, I begged God to show me the way…and God did.

Each day God picked me up out of the mud and pain and shame of my life and showed me I could shine my light. Some people hated me for it… some told me I wasn’t good enough and tried to destroy me….some people discarded me for it… but each day God showed my that my soul was meant to shine and that those who were cruel to me, like me, had forgotten that they could shine from their heart and soul too.

I loved that precious little boy in me whole again with God’s pure love, and the stains of the self hatred started to disappear and vanish from within me…. I began to self illuminate my life from my heart and soul working together reminding others of the light within them.

That little boy is now a man…and one I am so proud to be. When I look at myself in the mirror now, I see all the love that my heart and soul was able to spread.

I have learned that love really is the superpower in the world and it begins with obeying God and trusting and having faith in his way…

Love your enemy, and obey God, by loving yourself again…. by being honest and responsible for the energy you create by being the heart and soul that is within you.

You are not what the world told you you are. You are free of all of that once you claim it.

This is what I know for sure.

Love.

Love…

Love… and be kind to the little boy or the little girl within you.”

Paul Luftenegger

Well that was a beautiful way to start my day. Reading Paul’s post and then I commented with my famous typo “Love, Live, Love”, which seemed perfect, of course, and led me to this blog post. Everything is divinely perfect when we open to the flow of universal LOVE.

Have an amazing day everyone. I send you nothing but LOVE and I hope you LIVE LOVE today.

❤ ❤ ❤

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Life Coach, Pysch-K Facilitator & Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who trained directly under Mike Dooley. Mike Dooley is a New York Times Bestselling author, speaker, and entrepreneur in the philosophical New Thought movement. His teachings contain the premise that our “thoughts become things,” an expression he made popular in Rhonda Byrne’s book and video documentary on the Law of Attraction, The Secret.

self-love

Love Yourself More!

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

oscar wilde – playwright, poet, author

There are so many advantages to loving ourselves more. It is good for our mind, body, and soul and helps every single cell in our bodies to thrive rather than just survive.

The most beautiful thing you can do for yourself is to practice self-love. The best and thing about self-love is that you will NEVER be lonely if you love yourself and you will always be bathed in love. Now how awesome is that? ❤ ❤ ❤

Sure it is lovely to enJOY the company and companionship of others but when you can feel good and comfortable with yourself and with spending time alone, you really tap into a form of peace that most people in the world are seeking. It is such a beautiful place to be and well worth the effort of consciously and actively working on loving yourself more.

Here is a blog post I wrote last year “Self-love as Medicine”. You might find some useful tips there: https://maggieholbik.blog/2018/10/03/self-love-as-medicine/

And always remember that the practice of self-love is like a muscle, so the more you do it or use it, the bigger it gets! EnJOY!

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who works at self-love on a daily basis. She encourages others to do the same because when we are truly empowered and filled with our own love lights, we can shine our love onto the entire planet and help to illuminate the souls of others. 🙂

abundance, Divine Signs, kindness, love

Signs, Signs & More Signs

I swear I couldn’t love ❤ you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.

leo christopher

I love when things flow. This morning I keep seeing messages about Love and I Love that! 🙂 pun intended! ❤ ❤ ❤

Here is one that I saw in a Daily Teachings from The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

“Our highest power is love, and it is one thing each of us has an unlimited amount of. How much love do you give to others in one day? Each day we have an opportunity to set out with this great, unlimited power in our possession, and pour it over every person and circumstance.

Love is appreciating, complimenting, feeling gratitude, and speaking good words to others.

We have so much love to give, and the more that we give, the more that we receive.”

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The last line is of course my favorite “the more that we give, the more that we receive”. It is such a simple formula and I use it often. Whatever I want more of, I give more of….. Love, JOY, Kindness, Compassion, Inspiration…. etc. etc. etc. I wish you all nothing but JOY and LOVE today and always and in all ways.

Maggie Holbik.com is a passionate Lover of Life who delights in inspiring others to Love Life and to show the world more Love and Kindness by opening their hearts and minds up to the Infinite Possibilities that Love has to offer.

abundance, Joy

Are YOU Abundant?

What comes to mind when you think about the word ‘abundance’?

A lot of people’s thoughts go straight to the money piece but abundance is MUCH more than that. Abundance is really a measure of no limits and infinite possibilities. Being a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer and Coach, I love the thought of infinite possibilities when it comes to abundance. 🙂 Would you like to unlock the pathway to more abundance? 🙂

The other day I listened to something very interesting. I enJOY the work of Christie Marie Sheldon and I was listening to one of her YouTube talks “How to Attract Abundance with Energy Clearing” and what I found most insightful was that she said she can see immediately how abundant a person is by observing their energy field. Christie is one of those people who can read energy and see where blocks are and such. People with large and open energy fields are much more abundant in all ways than those with closed, tight fields.

To me this made complete sense and is something I know at my soul level. It’s a very simple formula really. The more you give the more you get. Give more Love, time, laughter, JOY, compassion, kindness, offerings, etc. and the MORE you will get back! It’s a universal law and works perfectly. Be expansive and open!

Those people who are OPEN and EXPANSIVE in their thinking, in their hearts and in their minds, attract to them beautiful things and are abundant in multiple ways. The cool thing is that when you open up to abundance in all ways, you can ultimately attract financial abundance too! Money is just another form of abundance so when you tap into abundance in general you start attracting all facets of abundance because you are OPEN to receive.

You can spot an abundant person easily. They share of themselves. They share their laughter, their JOY, their ideas, their thoughts, they like to serve, they like to help, they like to share, and they give of themselves. They are good at sharing themselves and they believe that the universe is a friendly place. They trust in the good and they share that freely. They spread beauty and grace and they leave trails of goodness wherever they go.

Another simple sign of abundance that can be relatable for many are the people who always have an extra spot at the dinner table. My Mother was this way. There was always room for one more if the circumstance arose. There may not have always been a lot to offer, but there was always room for one more….. this is a true sign of having the energy of abundance.

Once you are aware of how this works you can have fun with it. Start observing how good it feels when you share of yourself. For example, I often hear from people or hear through other people who have been told that these people really enJOY my social media posts and that it makes their day brighter or they love following my posts. This brings me complete JOY! I love to share inspiration, JOY, feel good things and I want to share of myself to make the world brighter and more beautiful. I want to help people to be abundant in having more love, JOY, and happiness in their lives. It feels AMAZING to be able to help with this. I am truly ABUNDANT beyond words. My cup runneth over and I like it 🙂 🙂

I hope you expand your field and allow more abundance and JOY into your own life. I shower you with an ABUNDANCE of BLESSINGS!!!!!!

More posts along the lines of Abundance: https://maggiesvitamins.blog/2019/05/16/give-get/

https://maggieholbikbusinesscoaching.wordpress.com/2019/02/20/amassing-wealth-is-easy/

Infinite Possibilites, Joy, love

I Love You

I Love YOU!

If we discovered that we had only five minutes left to say all that we wanted to say, every phone booth would be occupied by people calling other people to stammer that they loved them.

Christopher morley

So true! And even though we don’t use phone booths much anymore, I can see people flocking to their cells phones to share this same message.

Why do we wait?

Let’s not, shall we? Why not tell people you love them everyday and often? It’s a beautiful thing and it is like a muscle, the more we use it, the bigger it gets.

I love you all!

Maggie

Maggie Holbik.com is a newly Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who had the pleasure of training under Mike Dooley from the movie “The Secret”. Maggie has a mission to spread Love and Joy and personal empowerment and to reach those who have not yet been reached but need to hear the information surrounding Infinite Possibilities. 🙂 Go in JOY today and always and in all ways….

If you would like to inquire about upcoming classes and workshops on Infinite Possibilities please inquire here. Maggie does classes via Zoom video and anyone anywhere can participate. Maggie also does individual coaching sessions as well. And let Maggie know if you would like to be on her email list to receive her monthly newsletter and inspirations. 🙂

love, Nurturing

The Sweetest Mother’s Day Ever!

My daughter Sivanna is a pretty amazing girl. She continues to bring the Joy of Life into our home every day.

I was reminded by Facebook Memories of this list Sivanna made me for Mother’s Day several years ago. I couldn’t resist enJOYing it all over again and sharing it once again. It’s too cute!

It says:

MOM

. is awesome

. is pretty like me

. is sooo cool

. gives me sweet hugs

. loves me

. is a great Mom

. is an awesome Mom

It’s hard to pick which one I like best but if I had to I think I’d go with “gives me sweet hugs”.

Sivanna now 13.. sooo Sweet!

Happy Mother’s Day everyone! EnJOY the day whether you are a mother by blood, by heart, by choice, by love, by caring, by being a good friend, or whatever way your motherly love comes through. We are all mothers in our own ways!

Nurturing is love expressing itself and is the thread that weaves it way through all hearts that beat to the gift of life.

Maggie Holbik.com is a Mom, Grandma, and Great Grandma all through the gift of having an extended family with more people to Love! 🙂

Awakening, Encouragement, Joy, Passion, Uplift

Why Not Encourage & Uplift?

Do you know what I would like to see MORE of in the world today?

People encouraging and uplifting each other.

I am talking about straight up encouragement and supporting our fellow human beings walking the earth as a team of souls travelling together.

I love to see this in people’s personal lives, in community, in business and in life in general.

It feels so good when someone supports you, especially when it comes to things that bring you JOY! For example if someone you know enJOYs somethings like sports, learning, working, reading, playing, using technology, taking pictures, writing, travelling, and the list goes on, support them on their journey. Encourage them to do more of what brings them JOY!

JOY and enJOYment are different for all of us. What brings you JOY may not bring me JOY but we are not here to judge each other. We are here to LOVE each other. Love is also a form of encouragement, upliftment and mutual support and respect.

Let us all encourage each other to find our JOY, to live with and through our own PASSIONS fueled by our own DESIRES that make us HAPPY and JOYOUS.

I wish you nothing but JOY, JOY, JOY, today and every day. I hope you always honor your soul and do more things everyday that make your heart smile and bring you JOY!

Find Joy painted by Maggie’s daughter Sivanna Rose
Find JOY! Seek JOY! Be JOY! EnJOY!
compassion, kindess, self-love

3 Ways to Be More Compassionate & How It Can Free YOU!

As of late, I seem to be lead to the words compassion and compassionate. I myself, am working diligently at being more compassionate and less judgmental which quite honestly is a work in progress. The cool thing though, is I am realizing that the more compassionate I am, the less I suffer. Wow. Think about that one for a moment…..

The More Compassionate We Are, The Less WE Suffer

The more compassionate we are, the less WE suffer. I don’t know about you, but I’m in. 🙂

Just imagine a scenario where and when you might be judging someone without compassion. Maybe it’s judging the acts of a parent from your childhood, or a situation you witnessed at the park, or someone who declares that they are a supporter of a certain cause, or way of being, and you witness the opposite, or the grumpy store clerk that you want to judge and give the evil eye to. You know this list. It’s endless.

When I was a teenager, I had an ‘experience’ which I will now call a spiritual experience. It was made known to me that I was here on earth to learn to “Love and Not Judge”. I mostly forgot about this for much of my life, but lately I am getting gentle nudges to remember this and to act upon it. These reminders come through movies like the one I watched the other day called “The Shack”, which I really en-JOY-ed and recommend. It’s now on Netflix.

Reminders also come from watching the pains of those I love and my own pains as we go through life and we interact with those around us. I am reminded to let go of being the ‘judger‘. I know not why people do what they do and really it does not matter. The only thing I know for sure is that LOVE does heal all wounds, and true healing love is unconditional. Maybe not always in this lifetime for everyone, but it is possible and that gives me HOPE. There is always HOPE.

The Less We Judge Others, The More Peaceful WE Are!

What I also know for sure, is that the less I judge, the more peaceful I am and the more peaceful those I encounter are. Who likes to be judged? It’s an awful feeling. It’s like when you have someone come into your home and tell you what you should get rid of, or that you don’t need something, or you do need something, or you shouldn’t wear a certain piece of clothing because of xyz, or you should lose weight, or you should gain weight, or you should quit smoking, or you should stop this behavior or that behavior, or you should be this way or that way, or you should have said this or you shouldn’t have said that. It truly feels like an invasion of self and soul and it makes one very vulnerable.

Start With Self & Then Expand

We all know that having compassion for oneself is the ultimate compassion mountain to climb. I can be very hard on myself, just like the clients I coach who tell me how hard they are on themselves, so I know it’s not just me. I think we all struggle with this one because we are so afraid of self betrayal and truly struggle with loving ourselves and knowing that we are worthy. The secret here, is that if there is no judgement, worth does not even come into question!!!!! Wowsa! Amazing! Eureka! Something to think on and ponder on very deeply……

I am bearing witness to the many ways I judge and I am working on getting better at it. I am sorry to all those who I have passed judgement on and yet I am compassionate for myself for doing so. The exciting thing about all of this, is that awareness moves us forward. I am excited to work on having more compassion and I understand that all journeys involve steps, but they all start with the first….

I hope you found some comfort in this writing and I would love to hear your comments on how you have found more compassion in your life. That is another thing that I have learned, we don’t have to do it all alone…. being together on the journey provides comfort as well.

Blessings to all of you reading this. Blessings sent to others are of the highest and most compassionate frequency available to us. It’s like LOVE at its utmost, so many, many BLESSINGS sent to you, right now, right in this moment as YOU read this words.

With Much Love,

Maggie

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Life Coach, Board Certified Nutritionist and human being who is trying to remember to have more compassion and to forgive self and others quickly and easily so she can make space for more LOVE in her life and in the lives of those around her.


“The only way out of the labyrinth of suffering is to forgive.”

john green