forgiveness, Forgiving, kindness, self-love

The Power of For-GIVE-Ness

Lately I have been pondering on both the word and the power of forgiveness. When you break the word down, it is really about giving. What do we give when we forgive?

We give love, hope, compassion, empathy, and we hold space for healing. Now this can be for others or for ourselves. I have come to a place where I am pretty comfortable in the forgiveness department when it comes to others because I figured it out long ago, when I forgive I feel better. I’m pretty selfish that way LOL!

However, forgiving oneself sometimes takes on a daily challenge. A few weeks ago I was thinking what if we looked at each day as a chance to forGIVE ourselves each day like a goal! Like we get to GIVE ourselves some LOVE and COMPASSION. πŸ™‚ ❀ ❀ ❀

When I looked at it this way, I started to kind of like it. It was like okay, let’s bring on some forgiveness here for myself for whatever. This is a good thing. Again selfish, I know. My bad. πŸ™‚

My spiritual and soul self knows that there is nothing to forgive, which is cool too, but my human self falls into the humanness stuff, so I work at forgiving myself when necessary. I kind of look at it this way, the sooner I forgive the faster I can raise my frequency and be a light for others, so I just do it now. Of course, some days are easier than others and on a lot of days there is no need, but when the occasion arises to forgive, I try and take it. πŸ™‚

I like the words of Marissa Peer “To make mistakes is human but to forGIVE yourself is divine.”

I think one of the greatest gifts we can give our children and our loved ones, or anyone in our lives really, is the example of the ability to forgive. It is a gift that is like non other. I hope that you take an opportunity today to forGIVE yourself if you feel you need to and to enJOY the gift that the experience offers.

In Love & Light,

Maggie

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Life Coach and an Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer who loves to free herself and others from anything that causes us to suffer unnecessarily and causes pain, especially if that suffering blocks us from JOY. Maggie believes that we are deliberate creators here on earth and that JOY and LOVE are our birthrights.

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angels, beyond the veil, Divine Signs, Divine Synchronicity

Communicating With Loved Ones in The Spirit World

Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads out there!

I was just listening to a FB Live with Anita Moorjani and she was talking about receiving signs from the other side. I thought with many of us no longer having our Dads with us here on the earthly plane this was timely information for Father’s Day.

I am just going to share a few points here . One cool one is that Anita says the easiest way to receive messages from your deceased loved ones is when you are in JOY. Why is that? Because when you are happy and in JOY, your frequency is lighter and higher so it is easier for them to communicate with you. If we are sad or depressed it is harder for us to receive the beautiful signs and messages because our energy is denser and heavier. Where our deceased loved ones are is where true freedom and peace and LOVE are so that frequency is very high.

Now Anita stressed NOT to feel bad if you are feeling sad or depressed and to never beat yourself up for this, but just to understand that this difference in frequency does make a difference in the ability to receive. So my take is that the best thing we can do is do actively work at our happiness and JOY which will allow us to receive these messages easier and of course our deceased loved ones would want us to be happy anyway. We all know this!

The other point she made is that it is a paradox. The more you try to receive messages and signs, the less you will because you are in resistance. What you resist persists, as the saying goes. So just work at raising your frequency, being happy, and being open to any divine gifts and signs that may come your way.

I am so honored to have so many beautiful angels and guides on the other side that regularily send me divine signs and messages and Happy Father’s Day to you Dad up in Heaven. I just heard your laugh… I felt it in my heart. Thank you! Much LOVE to you and I am receiving all of your LOVE right now!

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Life Coach, Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach, and Board Certified Nutritionist who loves to receive the divine gifts that she receives daily.

Here is a link that you may find helpful for increasing your happiness πŸ™‚ https://maggieholbik.blog/2019/06/16/the-easy-road-to-happiness/

Happiness, Joy

The Easy Road to Happiness

One of my most favorite take aways from the book by Bronnie Ware called “The Top Five Regrets of the Dying” is this one:

#5 ”Β I wish that I had let myself be happier.

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called β€˜comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.” from Bronnie’s book.

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As both a Life Coach and a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach I really, really, encourage my clients to actively pursue happiness! It is a worthwhile endeavor as you can see. If it is one of the top five regrets of those on their deathbed, it’s pretty important I’d say. πŸ™‚

Journalling is a very powerful way to set a deliberate intention around your pursuit of happiness. Journalling is wide open and you can get creative with it. You may want to journal about your thoughts, desires and your dreams around happiness or things, place, memories, and people that make you happy. What you can write about is endless really.

I am very excited to be able to offer this amazing Happiness Journal where you can record all of your thoughts and ideas for your Happiness Plan. This journal has lots of space for you to put the power of words into action!!! It is also loaded with happiness quotes to inspire you on your journey.

I hope you take advantage of this and start on making your happiness a priority! πŸ™‚

Here is the link to get your very own downloadable journal. https://payhip.com/b/6vbs

There is no way to happinessΒ –happiness is the way.

Thich Nhat Hanh

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Life Coach and Certified Infinite Possibilities Coach who loves to encourage and uplift others in their lives. She gets happy when other people are happy and living in JOY!

Deliberate Creation, Imagination, Infinite Possibilites

Minding for What You Want!

Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.

Albert einstein

A picture in your mind is worth its weight in gold.

When my daughter was little she naturally knew the power of imagination and using her mind. She used to call it “minding”. She would say “I will just mind it Mom”, and I would think “Wow, cool, awesome!”

Picturing things in your mind and adding ‘feeling’ to them is super, super powerful. Never underestimate the power of forming pictures in your mind and using your imagination. And always, always, remember that when you are minding and visualizing in your mind the possibilities are INFINITE and ENDLESS!

I hope you take JOY in being a deliberate creator of your life. πŸ™‚

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer who loves minding! She minded this blog post πŸ™‚

self-love

Love Yourself More!

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

oscar wilde – playwright, poet, author

There are so many advantages to loving ourselves more. It is good for our mind, body, and soul and helps every single cell in our bodies to thrive rather than just survive.

The most beautiful thing you can do for yourself is to practice self-love. The best and thing about self-love is that you will NEVER be lonely if you love yourself and you will always be bathed in love. Now how awesome is that? ❀ ❀ ❀

Sure it is lovely to enJOY the company and companionship of others but when you can feel good and comfortable with yourself and with spending time alone, you really tap into a form of peace that most people in the world are seeking. It is such a beautiful place to be and well worth the effort of consciously and actively working on loving yourself more.

Here is a blog post I wrote last year “Self-love as Medicine”. You might find some useful tips there: https://maggieholbik.blog/2018/10/03/self-love-as-medicine/

And always remember that the practice of self-love is like a muscle, so the more you do it or use it, the bigger it gets! EnJOY!

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who works at self-love on a daily basis. She encourages others to do the same because when we are truly empowered and filled with our own love lights, we can shine our love onto the entire planet and help to illuminate the souls of others. πŸ™‚

Imagination, Infinite Possibilites, Joy

Does This Happen to You too?

Does this happen to you too? I just love when this happens because it reaffirms to me that there are positive forces and guiding angels working with me at all times and that is pretty cool.

For example, yesterday I had just made a Facebook post quoting Deepak Chopra. “You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.”
— Deepak Chopra “

I put my phone down and opened a book to a random page and on that page there was reference to Deepak Chopra and something that he had told this person, the author of the book I had just picked up….. I definitely took that as a sign and I lapped up the information. :-)

If you are curious as to what it was about, it was about remaining childlike so that you can be open to miracles, healing and more. As we age, many of us become blinded to wonder and to infinite possibilities and that is sad. By remaining childlike, we remain open to anything and that all is possible! Everything is amazing to a young child and they see the world as a brand new adventure and opportunity every day.

Think of when you were a little kid. Could your imagination run wild with infinite possibilities and playing let’s pretend? This my friends is a secret to creating the life you want.

By remaining childlike and using our imagination and visualization, we can have profound life shifts and create the life of our dreams! . πŸ™‚

And let’s go back to my original quote from Deepak “You must find the place inside yourselfΒ 
where nothing is impossible.” How perfect is this to tie it all in? Perfect, I’d say. πŸ™‚

Another wonderful confirmation I received yesterday was this. I wrote a blog post about letting JOY be your compass and on using what I call your JOY Meter. https://maggieholbik.blog/2019/06/02/let-joy-be-your-compass/

Well last night, the same day I wrote this post, I randomly picked a book out of my library called “Finding Joy”, and when I decided to turn to one of its pages, I opened to this title on one of the pages: “Learn to Take Energy Readings: A Thermometer for Self-Preservation“. WOW! The chapter was all about using a meter to register JOY! Coincidence? I think not. πŸ™‚

Here is an excerpt from the chapter that you might enJOY:

“To take an energy reading, imagine a thermometer inside you going from light to dense on a scale of 1 to 10. When you consider spending time with a friend, reading a book, selecting food, making love, buying clothes, interviewing for a job, looking at a new apartment, simply take a reading on a scale of 1 to 10 of how light or dense you feel. It’s amazing how most people come up with a number right away”. πŸ™‚ From the book “Finding Joy” by Charlotte Davis Kasl, Ph. D

I hope you too remain childlike and check in with yourself by using your own Joy Meter and doing more of those things that bring you JOY!

Maggie Holbik.com is very much a child. She had decided a long time ago that she was never going to grow up or at least lose her childlike view of life and all of its wonder and beauty. πŸ™‚ And so be it and so it is! πŸ™‚

Joy

Let JOY be Your Compass

β€œIf you carry JOY in your heart, you can heal any moment.”

carlos santana

If you know me, you know I use the word ‘JOY’ a lot! πŸ™‚ I really believe that the most direct connection to have more divine moments in our lives, is through JOY. To me, these are the moments that matter the most! I know there will be challenges and hardships in life, so on the flip side, I FOCUS on creating JOY and bringing it into my life as much as I can.

In fact, just yesterday I came up with a new term for things like a ‘coffee break’ or a ‘break’. Now I call them “JOY Breaks“. πŸ™‚

Finding ways to experience more JOY is well worth the effort, in my opinion. For many years now I have shared with people my “JOY Meter” theory that I developed. Whatever you do or think about doing in your life, ask yourself “Does this bring me JOY?” or “Will this experience bring me JOY?” And then see where it sits on your JOY meter.

For example, let’s say a friend asks you to take a trip to a city four hours away. How does your heart respond when you hear the question? Do you feel instant elation and excitement ie. your JOY Meter is dinging and pulsing to the top, or do you feel dread and your heart is heavy? Maybe you love this city or maybe you don’t or maybe the thought of a 4 hour drive pleases you or displeases you? Either way, simply check in with your JOY Meter and find out.

It is really simple actually. Start to do and pursue things that bring you JOY and that set your JOY Meter off, and most importantly honour yourself by listening to that meter! πŸ™‚

β€œJust follow your joy. Always. I think that if you do that, life will take you on the course that it’s meant to take you.”

jonathon groff

abundance, Divine Signs, kindness, love

Signs, Signs & More Signs

I swear I couldn’t love ❀ you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.

leo christopher

I love when things flow. This morning I keep seeing messages about Love and I Love that! πŸ™‚ pun intended! ❀ ❀ ❀

Here is one that I saw in a Daily Teachings from The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

“Our highest power is love, and it is one thing each of us has an unlimited amount of. How much love do you give to others in one day? Each day we have an opportunity to set out with this great, unlimited power in our possession, and pour it over every person and circumstance.

Love is appreciating, complimenting, feeling gratitude, and speaking good words to others.

We have so much love to give, and the more that we give, the more that we receive.”

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The last line is of course my favorite “the more that we give, the more that we receive”. It is such a simple formula and I use it often. Whatever I want more of, I give more of….. Love, JOY, Kindness, Compassion, Inspiration…. etc. etc. etc. I wish you all nothing but JOY and LOVE today and always and in all ways.

Maggie Holbik.com is a passionate Lover of Life who delights in inspiring others to Love Life and to show the world more Love and Kindness by opening their hearts and minds up to the Infinite Possibilities that Love has to offer.

Mel Robbins, thoughts are things

Reset Your Mindset

Want to change your life for the better immediately? There is a way to do this that makes perfect sense and ties in with the science of the brain.

This morning I listened twice to a Youtube video by Mel Robbins that is AMAZING. It’s a keeper for sure! I listened the first time just to listen, and the second time I took copious notes because I’m all about studying and applying things in my life that are going to make things run smoother and make me happier. Oh ya, bring on the JOY for me!

I also, listen and take notes for the students that I teach through my Infinite Possibilities workshops and the sharing I do via blogging like this and through my social media channels.

I WANT to make a difference in the world and to most of all EMPOWER people to have better lives by controlling their thoughts and leveraging their beliefs. My favorite quote by me is “I control my thoughts, they don’t control me!” And this quote ties in perfectly with the information in this video. I will share the link at the end of this blog post so you can watch it too and start changing for the better immediately!

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I highly recommend it

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Mel talks about how there are two modes we use with our thinking: Default or Autopilot and my favorite which is Deliberate Thinking! Deliberate thinking is what we want to master. We need to basically decode and change the neuro pathways and programs that we have created through the programming of our past. This programming often comes from others and then we attach to it and rethink it over and over again and it is now our default program. But the good news is we can change these programs or ways of thinking and switch to deliberate thinking!

I am not going to say anymore, I will just recommend that you watch this 10 minute video and use it to change your life for the better starting RIGHT NOW!!! I will be saving this video for future use for myself and anyone who I can help by sharing it with them.

I’d love to hear your thoughts too!

Here is the video:

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who has never been happier in her life! She has come into full bloom sharing the truth that #thoughtsarethings and that we create our own realities and that most importantly we can all do this!

Heaven on Earth, Life's Beauty

She Knows Me!

I love lilacs! My sister in Toronto sent me an email yesterday saying she thought of me when she saw these. Apparently where she lives, the lilacs are in bloom. Not yet where I am though, so something to look forward to!

The sweet smell of these flowers are amazing to me and it takes me to an almost mystical place when I inhale their beauty. And the colors! Although they come in various colors, light purple, dark purple and white being the most common in my neck of the woods, I like the light purple the best! What are your favorites?

I hope you find extra beauty in the flowers this spring. I know I enJOY them more and more every year and it seems as I age, their beauty becomes even more profound to me.

EnJOY!

Maggie Holbik.com is a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Coach who delights in the simple pleasures of life and as always is grateful for another day on earth… today. πŸ™‚